Keeping Yourself Safe
If you or someone you know is experiencing technology-facilitated abuse, here are some tips to help keep you safe:
- Use a Safe Device: If you think your device is being monitored, use a computer or phone that the abuser cannot access, like one at a public library.
- Delete Browser History: Clear your browsing history regularly on browsers like Google Chrome, Safari, and Microsoft Edge.
- Change Passwords: Change your passwords and do not use them on devices you think are monitored.
- Use Quick Exit Buttons: On some websites, there are quick exit buttons to leave the site quickly. Remember, some sites can still appear in your browser history.
- Use Private Mode: Browse in incognito or private mode so your web pages are not recorded.
- Check for Tracking Devices: Look for tracking devices like AirTags in your belongings and turn off location tracking on your phone or tablet.
Collecting Evidence
If it is safe, collecting evidence of the abuse can help with legal investigations. For example, take screenshots of abusive messages and save them on a safe device. A domestic, family, or sexual violence service provider, the police, or a lawyer can advise you on what type of evidence is most useful for your case.
Getting Help
Before seeking help, be aware that this can be a risky situation as the abuse might get worse. A domestic, family, and sexual violence service can help you make a safety plan.
The eSafety Commissioner has developed resources in your language to help people experiencing technology-facilitated abuse.
WESNET also has a series of resources (English-only) on women’s safety and privacy.