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Dowry Abuse

What is Dowry?

Dowry is a traditional practice where money, property, or gifts are given from one family to another around the time of marriage. This practice is legal in Australia.

Different Cultural Practices

  • In South Asian communities, the bride’s family often gives money, jewellery, property, cars, and household items to the groom’s family.
  • In North African and Middle Eastern communities, the groom’s family might give money or cattle to the bride’s family.
What is Dowry Abuse?

What is Dowry Abuse?

Dowry abuse happens when someone uses the dowry practice to hurt, control, or demand more from another person. This abuse is becoming a bigger problem in Australia, especially for women on temporary visas who depend on their partner for residency. They might be threatened with losing their visa if they don’t give more dowry.

Types of Dowry Abuse

Types of Dowry Abuse

Dowry abuse is a form of domestic and family violence. It can happen along with other abuses like financial, physical, or emotional abuse.

Signs of Dowry Abuse

Signs of Dowry Abuse

It can be hard to see if dowry abuse is happening to you or someone you know. Here are some signs:

  • A husband tries to control his wife’s income, bank accounts, and phone.
  • The bride’s family is forced to give gifts to avoid shame in their community.
  • A husband threatens violence if his wife does not meet his or his family’s dowry demands.
  • The couple cannot make their own decisions due to unfair family power dynamics.

Getting Help

If you or someone you know is experiencing dowry abuse, it’s important to get help. Here are some steps you can take:

  • Talk to Someone You Trust: Share what is happening with a friend, family member, or someone in your community who you trust.
  • Seek Professional Help: Contact a domestic, family, and sexual violence service provider. They can offer support and guidance on what to do next.
  • Know Your Rights: Understanding your legal rights can help you make informed decisions. There are laws in place to protect you from abuse.
  • Use Available Resources: Harmony Alliance and the Australasian Centre for Human Rights and Health have resources in your language about dowry abuse in Australia. These can provide more information and support.

Support Services

If you need help and it’s not an emergency, domestic, family, and sexual violence service providers can support you. Visit our [Support Services Page] for more information. They can help with:

  • Legal advice
  • Counselling
  • Safe accommodation
  • Financial support

Remember, you are not alone, and help is available.

If you or someone you know has experienced dowry abuse, remember it is not your fault. Nothing justifies this violence. Help is available.

1800RESPECT: Call 1800 737 732 for confidential help and advice.

Legal Aid Services: Offer free legal advice and help. They can explain your rights and help you with legal issues. You can contact legal aid in your state or territory here.

For more information and support, visit our Support Services Page.

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